Ray has been a parishioner at Blessed Sacrament since 1993. He and his wife, Denise reside in Bridgewater and have a daughter Nicole. Ray currently works as a Vice President for Weichert Title Agency. Prior to that, Ray enjoyed many years as a basketball official and served the community as a Bridgewater recreation soccer and softball coach. Ray was the Communion Breakfast Speaker in 2007. He is a 3rd Degree Knights of Columbus and a Minister of Hospitality since 2000.